Our lil Bub couldn't wait! At 25+5wks our little baby boy Jett Anthony was born!A quick run down of what happened:
27th September - 11pm I started bleeding, not much but enough to be concerned.
28th September - 12.10am Arrive at RBWH. Bleeding had slowed but was watched carefully. mild contractions were present, but not enough to worry.Cervix long and closed. Placenta low lying.. I sent Jett's dad home to sleep and I rested too. I was warned that if I hemorrhaged I would have to deliver, but was reassured it wouldn't be unless absolutely necessary.
- 11am, blood loss of 500ml, sent for ultrasound. Concluded that bleed was probably caused by the edge of the placenta. As the bleeding had settled down, it wasn't a concern at that point. Low doses of morphine kept contractions at bay..
- 6pm, No bleeding or contractions, I was allowed to eat dinner, so it was obvious the staff didn't expect I would be sent to theatre.
- 9pm, settled in bed for about 10mins then felt blood loss. Upon measurement it was almost a litre. At this point blood was arranged for me, and delivery was discussed, but again no plans unless necessary. It was too early!
- 11pm, contractions coming hard and fast. Dose of morphine didn't help at all. As I had the previous classical cut the Drs didn't want me to labour. I was scared, but knew that my labour was the real thing.
29th September - 1am, theatre was arranged, labour was full on. On the way to theatre I had the urge to push. Membranes ruptured in the corridor to theatre, Baby was on his way!
- 2.44am, Jett Anthony was pushed into the world crying. I saw he was a boy and touched him before he was taken away to be worked on. Phone calls made to my Mum and Jetts dad who had missed the whole thing.
- 3.30am placenta was not coming I was losing loads of blood. Blood pressure dropping by the minute. Epidural given very slowly and into theatre I went. Placenta was manually extracted however by that stage I had lost so much blood I had lost all clotting capabilities. I was awake while a team of 20 medical professionals worked hard to save my life. I ended up having 5 IV access lines, which were extremely hard to get as I had no blood pressure. I thought I was going to die and when I asked someone they just said they were doing all they can. I just kept thinking of my baby boy who needed me and knew I had to stay strong.
Finally at 6am I was stable and was moved to ICU at 7am with massive bruising all up my arms and down my legs where they had tried to access my arteries and veins. I had a balloon in my uterus and packing in my vagina to prevent another hemorrhage. It was so scary, but when I saw my son that day I was just in love!!
Jett has to make it, because he is my last chance. I narrowly escaped a hysterectomy, but my heart was very compromised and still was for 2 days with the fluid shifts occuring. If I had been in a smaller hospital without the available blood and such a great team it's safe to say I wouldn't be here. The obstetric consultant has offered a debrief when ready and I have spoken to many of the people involved in my care that night for de briefing purposes.
So that's the short version, many other things did happen within the hours I didn't fill in but that's basically what happened. Tonight I have all lines catheters etc out except for 2 which I need for antibiotics. I have been up and about tonight and my beautiful boy is doing wonderfully today.. Each day is going to get better!!
Yes, it is. You stay strong Mama, your boy needs you!
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy to see you're staying positive about it all - I wouldn't blame you if you lost your mind after that birth, to be honest. You've been through so much, you deserve all the happiness Jett will bring you :)
Congratulations!!!! I love his name.
ReplyDeleteWhat a scary experience for you though, I'm so glad you had such a good team looking after you xx All the best in your recovery and I hope Jett has a smooth journey through the NICU =)